Books

Naturally it’s not just women who enjoy making love with men over fifty; I’m sure there are men buying this book too!

But for a woman who makes love with a man of a certain age, this book provides useful insights to the ways men’s sexuality changes over time. The main theme of the book is that men’s sexual responses slow with the years. Men take longer to arouse after fifty, and in fact become more like us women in that regard. It is our turn to be patient and encouraging. But there are many more specifics here as well, and the book is worth reading for the helpful hints it provides.

Sex educator Tracey Cox writes frankly and practically about sex in the second half of life — what changes physiologically, what doesn’t have to change, and how to build a satisfying sex life well past 50. An honest, cheerful, and genuinely useful guide for women who refuse to believe the best is behind them.

A single-subject book on vaginal atrophy, the genitourinary syndrome of menopause that affects a large majority of postmenopausal women and is discussed by almost none of them. Blunt, practical, and written because nothing else existed.

A board-certified menopause practitioner shares everything she tells her patients, covering hot flashes, sleep disruption, vaginal changes, sexual health, bone loss, and heart disease risk. Clear, accessible, and reassuring.

In this book, Joan Price continues to explore late life sexuality. Joan’s grief over the death of her husband, and her creative ways to address her sexuality after that loss, are significant in this volume.

Joan also addresses how we continue to be sexual when our health issues, or the health of our partners, become challenges in our sexual expression.

William Blake wrote that “joy and pain are woven fine,” and in Naked at Our Age, Joan Price helps us ensure that the joy remains woven into the pattern of our lives.

The third collection from the Kensington Ladies’ Erotica Society — a group of women who have met in Berkeley for over twenty-five years to share the fantasies polite company won’t. Older now, and if anything bolder, they treat death as a mere distraction next to the twin appetites of mind and body. By turns racy and reflective, outrageous and open-hearted, these stories insist that desire doesn’t retire.

Dr. Ogden was a professional who wrote with wisdom and compassion about how women reclaim their sexuality after midlife, in spite of social pressures, and in many cases in spite of a history of abuse. She has spent a lifetime developing her understanding of how we construct meaning about our sexuality and how we develop our sexual relationships. Readers of this book gain the benefit of her insights. Our relationships with ourselves are her ultimate concern.

Joan Price is the foremost advocate for older people’s sexuality, and this is her definitive guide — covering everything from the physiological changes of menopause to navigating desire after illness, disability, or divorce. Frank, warm, and non-judgmental, it treats older women’s sexual lives with the seriousness they deserve.

Dr. Jen Gunter’s comprehensive, myth-busting guide to vaginal and vulvar health — including the massive changes menopause brings to genital tissue. Essential reading for any woman who wants accurate, evidence-based information about her body.