Books

Raymond Jetson examines the experience of aging through a Black American lens — the particular vulnerabilities, strengths, and communal resources that shape how Black elders grow old in a country that has never treated them equally. A frank and necessary perspective on race, age, and dignity.

Naturally it’s not just women who enjoy making love with men over fifty; I’m sure there are men buying this book too!

But for a woman who makes love with a man of a certain age, this book provides useful insights to the ways men’s sexuality changes over time. The main theme of the book is that men’s sexual responses slow with the years. Men take longer to arouse after fifty, and in fact become more like us women in that regard. It is our turn to be patient and encouraging. But there are many more specifics here as well, and the book is worth reading for the helpful hints it provides.

Divorced at sixty-three, Jessie Woodley inherits a Colorado cabin and a trust — but only by completing a series of cryptic tasks set by a watchful lawyer she’s dangerously drawn to. Book 1 of the Lovesong Encore later-in-life romance series.

All We Know of Pleasure: Poetic Erotica by Women is a hugely satisfying collection edited by Enid Shomer and published by Carolina Wren Press.

It’s intriguing in part because the book is divided by the age of the poets and their subjects.
Part I, The Discovery of Sex, is all about first longing.
Part II, The Ordinary Day Begins, is about sex in the years of active motherhood.
Part III, When this Old Body, is of course my favorite and the part I read first.

“And suddenly, again, I want the long road of your thigh,” writes Jane Hirshfield of the desire that comes in long knowing.

“our bodies move and join / unbearably. / your face above me / is the face of all the gods / and beautiful demons,” writes Lenore Kandel, reminding us of the timelessness of lust.

“Neither of them was young. His beard was gray… But they kissed lavish kisses like the ocean in the early morning… We couldn’t look away,” writes Ellen Bass about a couple reunited at the Portland airport. These fine poems capture what it is to be a woman in love with life across its full span.

Unable to shake a midlife emptiness, Janet Wilson and her husband drive 25,000 miles across Africa; through tragedy and hardship they transform a decades-long marriage into deeper trust. A later-life story of reinvention.

Dying of stage-four cancer and estranged from her grown daughter, Liz Millanova joins a hospital support group and forms a fierce chosen family with two fellow patients. A tender novel about mortality, reconciliation, and savoring what is left.

Eighty-eight-year-old Maud is small, frail, and utterly ruthless. When inconvenient people get in her way, she handles them — with the kind of decisive efficiency that only comes with age and absolutely nothing left to lose. Helene Tursten’s darkly comic stories are a love letter to the surprising freedom of extreme old age.

After nearly three decades of motherhood, columnist Rita Lussier faces a sudden empty nest — rekindling her marriage and career while caring for aging parents. A memoir of midlife reinvention.

Registered dietitian and journalist Christy Harrison dismantles diet culture — the harmful system that profits from women’s food anxiety — and presents intuitive eating as a radical, evidence-based alternative. Especially relevant during menopause when diet-culture pressure often intensifies.

Through anecdote, playful exercises, interviews and writing samples, Aphrodite’s Pen encourages ripe women to explore erotic writing as a joyful practice — the first book of its kind, for older women embarking on an intimate journey of personal growth.

Seventy-six-year-old Caro Spencer, a retired schoolteacher, is placed by her family in a rundown rural nursing home, where neglect and small cruelties threaten to erase her. In a secret journal she fights to hold onto her dignity, her memory, and her sense of self. May Sarton’s spare, searing novel is one of the most honest accounts ever written of institutional aging and the will to remain fully human.

Brené Brown maps 87 emotions and experiences — naming them precisely and explaining how language shapes connection, belonging, and wellbeing. An invaluable tool for women in midlife working to understand and articulate their complex emotional lives.

Springfield refuses to stay saved. A new mutation sends the women’s powers into dangerous, unstable spikes, and only Flygirl is unaffected. Racing to find a cause and a cure, she must cooperate with the very scientist who changed their lives, while romances, weddings, and divorces test whether these heroines can truly have it all.

Freshly divorced and adrift, Claire Emerson expects nothing from her sixtieth birthday — until an antique pendant from her grandson awakens a magical calling she never knew she carried. Lydia M. Hawke’s Crone Wars series is a satisfying inversion of the usual story: here the magic arrives with age, and a woman past sixty turns out to be the hero the world has been waiting for.

Joan Price writes candidly about sexuality after sixty — desire, dating, body changes, and intimacy. Warm, funny, and deeply affirming for any woman wondering if her erotic life is over. It is not.

When Janice Mason Steeves surveyed 138 artists aged 59 to 79 about their journeys into art, a pattern emerged: later life, far from being a barrier to creativity, can be an ideal time to begin. Weaving their stories with her own path from psychology to an international painting career, Steeves offers practical guidance and encouragement for anyone drawn to a creative life after 50.

Joan Didion’s follow-up to The Year of Magical Thinking turns to the death of her daughter Quintana and to Didion’s own aging body — the blue nights of the title, when daylight lingers longest but dark is coming. A meditation on parenthood, time, and the losses that accumulate as we grow older.

Yale psychologist Becca Levy has spent decades studying how our beliefs about aging shape the way we age. Her research is remarkable: people with more positive views of their own aging live, on average, 7.5 years longer. Breaking the Age Code is both the science and the practical guide to changing how you think about getting older.

Stella Fosse’s smart, sexy novel drops three accomplished women scientists — a biology professor, a chemist, and a patent-lawyer/engineer — into the San Francisco biotech scene, where they discover they’ve all been dating the same charming con man, a fraudster stealing their research along with their hearts. Comparing notes, they reach one conclusion: getting rich is the best revenge. First Wives Club meets The Witches of Eastwick, with older women firmly in charge of the story.

Sisters Emily and Amelia Nagoski explain why women experience burnout differently than men, and offer science-backed strategies for completing the stress cycle and recovering your wellbeing. Essential for women who have spent decades caregiving, working, and putting themselves last.

A prequel to Dakota Blues, exploring Karen Grace’s earlier life and the career and marriage pressures that precede her midlife road trip.

New Yorker cartoonist Roz Chast turns her signature anxious wit on the hardest subject: her elderly parents’ final years. This graphic memoir is funny, wrenching, and utterly honest about the mess of aging parents, overwhelmed adult children, and the things families can’t quite say out loud. Winner of the National Book Critics Circle Award.

Executive coach and life strategist Dr. Susan R. Meyer gathers the stories of thirty-eight women — from their late sixties into their nineties — who are living with vitality, courage, and joy. Through intimate interviews she draws out eight qualities behind a vibrant later life: resilience, persistence, curiosity, bricolage, fearlessness, legacy, fun, and connection. A warm rebuttal to the idea that women grow less visible or less relevant with age.

With great power comes great frustration. As the newly transformed women adjust to life as superheroes, Patricia presses on alone to find the woman who changed them, while Jessica and Linda train with a covert agency known as The Department. Old threats resurface, and controlling their new abilities proves harder than any of them expected.